What is your idea of hell? In 1976 Lower Chehalis elder Henry Cultee (from the Grays Harbor area of Washington State) told me his version of the traditional story in which Bluejay visits the Land of the Dead. There, amidst entire nations of Indian people and animal species, Bluejay found a white man, munching away, declaring, “Eat it all up!” Cultee’s version of hell was tragically prophetic. In a consumer society that seems hell-bent on eating up the natural world, we also have a current epidemic of obesity among children. As indicated in the PBS special recently aired on this topic, the loneliness, shame, and personal agony of these overweight children does not seem far removed from anyone’s idea of hell.
At the end of show a panel discussed ways to address the childhood obesity epidemic. It is no small health challenge. Those who suffer obesity at such a young age tilt the odds toward losing their eyesight to diabetes before they reach thirty. Panel members spoke of regaining cultural choices in place of fast (maybe we should call it “fat”) food. They also discussed impoverished food choices in underprivileged communities, where less expensive foods supply calories without nourishment. How many white bread buns or candy bars or chips does it take to give the body the nutrients it needs? Until its nutrient needs are met, surely the body will still hunger. I love one solution to changing their children’s eating habits put forth by members of a Latino community on the PBS show: sharing meals together.
One thing the panel did not address was what the desperate hunger of these children might be telling us, especially when we place it alongside the other diseases of hunger in this nation of plenty—such as anorexia and bulimia. When a child cries over a hamburger he feels he should keep himself from eating, we feel his helplessness, his sense that he has no real power—or right—to nourish himself.
Certainly our media works to distort and manipulate our sense of our own hunger. It is more than lack of exercise that associates obesity with hours of television viewing; it is exposure to this kind of propaganda. Disassociation from our authentic hunger is a boon for a system built on consumption. As an addiction counselor once phrased it, “We can never get enough of what we don’t want in the first place”. Those who never get enough will never stop consuming.
Only a nation out of touch with its own real hunger would allow the pollution of its food—and reward those who create such pollution with financial profits. How can we tell children that they should limit their eating when consumption is so tied into with success in our society—even as our levels of consumption are undermining the natural sources of our nourishment?
Take the pollution of breast milk, which Sweden (but not the US) has effectively addressed by prohibiting the use of dangerous chemicals found in that milk. The chemicals in breast milk reflect the chemical burden we all bear, though infants bear this burden especially uneasily. Their own chemical exposures are linked with escalating rates of autism and developmental disabilities—and of cancer, which is currently the main killer of children in our society.
Recently, a study of the Mohawk community at Akwesasne, where diabetes is epidemic, found that the larger their body burden of particular chemicals, the more likely they were to have diabetes. Tragically that body burden is linked to the consumption of the traditional healthy fish diets of the Mohawk. The problem is that these fish now come from polluted waters—not, need I say, polluted by the Mohawk.
Another growing body of research links obesity with body burdens of particular chemicals as well. It is no surprise that endocrine disrupters should disrupt our body’s ability to metabolize food and regulate our weight. And it is no secret that impoverished communities bear the brunt of environmental pollution and so have the highest body burdens of endocrine disrupters such as dioxin, chlorinated pesticides and fire retardants.
A nation that sanctions such pollution by rewarding it with profit is also a nation divided. It is a nation very different from the kind of society where hunger is shared and satiated by those who live close to the earth that sustains them. In the traditions of elder Henry Cultee’s people, only “low class” people failed to share food with others. “If someone was hungry, somebody else would come along to help”. In this context, it was bad manners even to ask, “Are you hungry?” You just brought out the food. Cultee’s views were linked to an intimate respect for the shared earth that sustained his people for generations.
There are parallel beliefs where people live close to the shared earth that nourishes them. An elderly neighbor of mine tells me that in her natal Czech farming community one did not say “thank you” for a gift of anything—such as the fruit or flowers I sometimes bring her—that comes from the earth. She lavishly praises me (far beyond what my small acts deserve) for my labor and thoughtfulness, but for the gifts themselves she thanks the earth. My Czech grandfather had a similar reverence for the natural world—a reverence that also mandated sharing. My father tells of the time the police caught two men stealing meat from his tiny Iowa butcher shop. When they asked my grandfather if he wanted to press charges, he replied, “If they are hungry, the meat belongs to them. Give it back.”
Hunger is not a sin, nor is nourishing ourselves. Nor is poverty, for that matter. I agree with my grandfather’s assessment that true poverty is expressed by those who have too much when others are starving.
I would like to suggest that if we wish to cure the epidemic of obesity outlined in the PBS special, we should feed ourselves well, addressing our hunger for such things as community, belonging, purpose, acceptance, creativity, time to ourselves, and physical exercise—not to mention sustaining food, fresh air and clean water. One of the hopeful signs I see is the (literal!) sprouting of urban gardens in which healthy eating, care for the land, and community are combined.
A world in which we truly nourish ourselves would be one in which we listen to our bodies to tell us how to meet our physical hunger (even if we have to work to relearn this), and our hearts to tell us what unique gift each of us is meant to give back to the life of our shared world.
In which we care together for the earth upon which we rely to feed us all—rather than “eating it all up”.
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Filed under: Contrasting worldviews, Ecofeminism, Environmental psychology, Healers, Health, Justice, Our Earth and Ourselves | Tagged: hunger, obesity
What an amazingly true article. The concept of obesity in our children is in fact a deeper hunger. In essence the emptiness found in consumerism while others go without becomes a starvation of the soul and hunger of the spirit. The imbalance of this society has and continues to have unfortunately major affects on our children such as obesity. I do like Elder Cultee truthful story as a mirror reflection of a society of consumerism. I do appreciate the inclusion of indigenous people who may eat a healthy fish diet but be affected because of the chemicals which come from toxic wastes often dumped in indigenous people, people of color, and poor people’s communities due to their marginalization in the society. The continual saturation of our food with chemicals can’t help but affect our bodies especially the children. The concept from diverse cultures of nurture and care for those who are hungry is an example of sustainable societies that recognized and honored the earth which is the sustainer of our lives and therefore they are able to honor the lives of others. The food that our children need to overcome obesity is care, nurturance, love, natural foods that are not filled with poisons, and an ecofeminist culture that will undermine the cultural structures of consumerism which conceives itself as self-hatred within. When one lives in a culture where humans are considered seperate from the body of the earth and nature, is it any wonder that our children don’t feel comfortable in their bodies? This is a hunger that can not be quenched until we dare to live from a place of interconnectedness with the universe and all that is in it.
A wise comment, indeed, Frances. Thank you. I couldn’t concur more. I especially appreciate your elaboration of how we might feed our real hungers as we nurture ourselves and our communities.
As always, your personal warmth shows through here!
It is amazing to me that more attention is not paid to truely hungry people. The earth is generous and abundant, and we should not restrict that abundance to only those that can afford it. True physical hunger is unacceptable in this light. Emotional hunger howerever, is more just as detrimental, but does not necessarily require the earth to provide to fulfill that hunger. Emotional hunger can be fixed by the supporting players in someones life. Reteaching people how to treat each other is one way we can work on this as a society. Not judging and accepting people and including people will help us get well on our way to keeping our children happy, healthy (less obese children) and socially accepted. The children are not the only people that need saving from obesity…they are usually learning these lifestyle and eating habits from their adult caretakers.
A caring response, Kelly. Interesting that whereas we can perhaps fulfill our physical hunger by ourselves, we can only fulfill our emotional hunger in community, it seems. So we are the “social” in offering our children, for instance, social acceptance.
The story about the two men stealing meat from your father’s butcher shop reminded me of a show I once watched where the host would travel to different parts of the world to learn about the native culture. The host was in Alaska or Canada interviewing some Eskimos and the Eskimos showed how they left their freshly caught fish outside because it was so cold, it was like a refrigerator. When the host asked if they were afraid someone might steal their fish the Eskimos smiled and replied, “If someone is going to steal the fish than they must need it more than I.”
Thanks for the connection in examples, Jessica. It is my sense that all those who live close to the earth and experience her bounty are motivated to share in turn.
My favorite part of this article is how they not only explain the problem, but propose a solution to it. I think that obesity and its causes have become so common in our culture that we have become blind to the disease. It is fascinating to me that we can cure such a huge problem with something as simple as community; and yet, I could not agree more. We are culturally conditioned to want what we don’t need, instead of appreciating what we do have. I appreciate the Czich grandmothers sincere respect for nature. Indeed, this connection with the earth and those that inhabit it seems to be a great solution for not only the problem of obesity, but so many others that exist in our society.
Hi Katelyn, I am glad you liked the part about community here–I think that is a very important element in healing this disease (which also entails cleaning up our environment, since there is much more data coming out on the links between obesity and the body burden of particular chemicals since I first wrote this post. Thanks for your comment.
I found this article very true, and inspiring. The obesity level is on the rise in our country and all that is being done is people stating the problem, but not giving true solutions to the problem. I like how this article addressed the issue and took a different approach to the problem. I found the story about the two men who stole the meat very interesting and very true. If we would help ourselves and then those around us, think of where our world would be today.
Thanks for your thoughtful–and compassionate– response, Joanna.
Yes, I agree that American children are hungry because they aren’t given good food choices. These kids eat more because they aren’t getting the nutrition that their bodies need. I am guilty of the same thing, I bought food that was quick and easy for my boys to grab on the way. What I didn’t realize is how easy it really was, not only to grab and go but to put on weight. Now my nine year old son is 35 lbs over weight. He has a handle on it now and has lost 14 lbs and 2 pants sizes. If you were to ask him how he has done it he would say “I just make better food choices and watch how much I eat”. That is the key, parents need to read labels and bring in healthy food. If the junk is in the house then they will eat it. They won’t be as hungry and they will be much healthier children when they eat healthy food
Thanks for sharing your personal experience, Dianna. Your son’s experience can teach us all something.
“When a child cries over a hamburger he feels he should keep himself from eating, we feel his helplessness, his sense that he has no real power-or right-to nourish himself.”
That statement really struck me. The sadness is, he has been neglectfully trained by the media and parents to eat in a manner which is not in balance with the needs of the body or of nature. The child is conditioned and does not know any other way. When he is overweight and told he must stop eating all the foods that he is accustomed to, it is emotionally and physically difficult to adjust, especially when the media and culture make such foods the cheapest, most advertised and readily available. To change the diet, requires a change in thinking and a more involved relationship with food. It means more work, and maybe even more money, which means for poor people it is even harder.
The obesity epidemic is truly one of the biggest challenges our American way of life has created for our nation. It is going to need to be supported by community, school, family and media. It goes beyond food, to the structure of our lifestyles, expectations, definitions of happiness, and level of social interaction. I am happy to see that Michelle Obama is making this one of her projects to focus on.
What is sad in the above scenario of the child who is hungry, is the feeling that it is not okay to nourish yourself, and I think that message extends to the lack of family, community and social nourishment we give our kids. This also seems to stem from the fact that children are often left alone while parents work, and parents do very little cooking because they are too tired and they can buy it cheaper at a fast food place.
Another striking point is how pesticides are linked to our bodies endocrine systems, linked to diabetes, etc., and yet, our government is unwilling to address these things, I guess because there is so much corporate greed at stake.
Thanks for your very thoughtful and caring comment, Lesley. You have brought up some key issues here in the intersection of the child who is taught it is not okay to nourish himself with corporate over-nourishment– and the general ethic of consumption in our society. More and more data has come out on the intersection of diabetes, obesity and pesticides since I originally wrote this.
And while we have an epidemic of childhood obesity, we have also have an epidemic of young women starving themselves to death. Obviously we need to right our relationship with both our own hunger and the lands that feeds us.
As I read this insightful article, I could not help but think of how “waste” we create surrounding food. There is no doubt that we need to teach children, at an early age, to not over indulge. At the same time, we need to teach ourselves how to propose the right portions to children and adults, as well, so that we do not throw away wasted food in the garbage. Many times, we tend to tell children “you need to eat your peas……do you know how many hungry children are out there who would love to have those peas”. The fact of the matter is that we, as adults, are responsible to take action on both sides of this issue. We need to be careful not to overfeed children while, at the same time, we need to teach children the value in not creating excess waste. These are positive actions toward Earth. If all of us contribute, then, less will need to be grown and less will need to be collected as garbage.
I want to write more here; but, I am limited. I found the fact that dangerous chemicals may be aiding obesity and diabetes very, very interesting as well!
Thanks,
Paul
Hi Paul. I think that this issue begins with ourselves and what we ourselves model. I also think limiting children’s food is not the answer, nor reminding them of starving children elsewhere. We need to be in touch with our bodies (so that we understand our own fullness and hunger), in touch with the land to grow healthy food–and we need to STOP peddling over-consumption in the realms of food as everywhere else. We are in effect force feeding our entire society with much more than food in consumerism.
Thanks for your comment!
I appreciate this post. I have noticed an increase in my own child’s interest in eating well. She has come to me recently saying “I don’t want to drink pop anymore, it’s bad for me.” Her health teacher seems to be making a positive impact on her personal choices for healthy eating. I have noticed an inclination for her to be a bit “overly” concerned for her body shape/image. I realize this is normal for a 14 year old. I think this article points out the important issue for my child and all of us. A deeper look into our physical, emotional, spiritual needs can uncover the vital nutrients for health, including healthy food choices. Community, sharing, giving, and receiving love also contribute to the cravings of our bodies that “empty food” does not fulfill.
Great perceptions, Kaaren. It sounds like you have some important wisdom to pass on to your daughter.
It’s heart breaking to think of the children that go without food on a daily bases. I have put in many community service hours at a food kitchen over the years. I have gotten to know the people and have scene them struggle to get through the hard times. The community kitchen that I use to work at would make sure to make health food for everyone that came through. I just wish our public schools would start to make more healthy food choices for our children.
Thanks for this comment, Katie. And for your work at the kitchen. Such work serves us all!